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When I wrote you lastmy wife said she was cheating on me because my post-military job required me to be gone so often. Now she says she wants a divorce and plans to move on with the other guy.
I think this is insane, considering the other guy is married. I called a lawyer and started the process for divorce. There are parts about this I hate. First, I was told by the law firm that the judge isn't going to care about the fact she cheated on me. Third, I found out this guy is in the Army.
Believe it or not, my wife and one of her friends told me not to pursue this man or I'll regret it. Actually, I was threatened by my wife not to take action against him. Yes, my marriage is over. She doesn't want to reconcile. But this man committed adultery, and that can't go unpunished!
If talking to this guy's chain of command about him doesn't cause any damage to my case, then I'm gonna let the Uniform Code of Military Justice handle him. I'll suffer a lot of flak behind this. I look at it this way: I'm not gonna kill this guy and I will get some satisfaction out of this. Point blank: Your wife did you dirty and you didn't deserve this. She should have been honest, instead of being deceitful.
To find out that she has been having a sexual relationship with another man is shocking to you and incredible. The people at the law firm are right. I have talked to many spouses who have recently divorced. Some spent thousands of dollars on private detectives to prove infidelity against their partner, and the judge was not interested. You may be able to work out an alternate arrangement about your military retirement. In a divorce settlement, I've seen spouses settle for the house instead of retirement, for example. This is where I see things a little differently, so please understand.
Your relationship and commitment was with your wife and not with that soldier. Your wife gave him permission; he did not take advantage of her. Your wife was a willing participant, and she still is. It is hard to accept when people leave us and move on. You have every right to have an array of emotions.
I just don't think going after this man is worth your time. My grandmother used to say, "Living a good life is your revenge. Now, if this guy is good to your wife and they grow old together, good for her. On the other hand, if he treats her like a dog and dumps her, also good for her.
You have nothing to do with this situation. My advice is to keep reaching out to people who will let you vent and get these emotions out. You can write to me anytime. I understand. Do you ever wish that college was free for military spouses?
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